Our identity is fictional, written by parents, relatives, education, society.
Officially not ready to go back to Finland.
Why should you worry about the future? You don’t even know the present properly. Take care of the present and the future will take care of itself.
You need to learn how to select your thoughts just the same way you select your clothes every day. This is a power you can cultivate. If you want to control things in your life so bad, work on the mind. That’s the only thing you should be trying to control.
I don’t want to look back in five years time and think, ‘We could have been magnificent, but I was afraid.’ In 5 years I want to tell of how fear tried to cheat me out of the best thing in life, and I didn’t let it.